It’s an age-old problem that men of all ages face at some time in their lives:
how can I meet women?
The first thing a man has to decide is what kind of women does he want to meet? Are you looking for a one night stand? Or, are you looking for a relationship that will lead to a commitment? Once that’s decided, then a man can move onto the next decision, which is… where can I meet women?
Bars seem to be the most popular place for a man to go to meet a woman. And while you might meet the woman of your dreams there, again, you might not! If you’re comfortable at the bar scene, then you’ll have a better chance of finding what you’re looking for. But, don’t just make a beeline to a bar just because you think your best chance will be there! Why? Because it will be obvious that you’re new to the environment. Have you ever heard of the saying, “Like a fish out of water”? Well, that will be you! You just can’t make a good impression when you’re nervous and unsure of your surroundings.
Your best bet is to visit places where you are comfortable. This could be at church functions, at bookstores, at the library, at coffee shops, or at social functions you’re invited to. Just make sure that you get out of your house if you want to meet women. You can’t catch a fish if you haven’t got your line in the water!
Many people nowadays rely on the Internet to find a date or to land a potential relationship. There are several online dating services that can help you match your profile to that of a suitable woman. A profile usually looks at similar interests, personality traits, and backgrounds.
So, if you have checked out your local area, or, you’d rather not look there, and you’re willing to travel to meet someone who might be the woman of your dreams, then an online dating service might be the way for you to go.
Now, once you’ve decided where to go to meet women, you’ll need to know how to act. How to act, you may ask? I’m going to be my cool, suave male self, of course! An important word of advice: don’t put on airs! Don’t act like someone you’re not! And, don’t come on too strong! Being yourself is the best person you can be!
You’ll need to be able to talk to women, that’s a given. If you have trouble in this area, practice talking to someone you already know. This person can be a female neighbor, a friend, a coworker, or even a sister in law. Ask these women what subjects they are interested in. Be sure that you make eye contact, that you don’t take over the conversation, and that you aren’t boring or dull.
Add a little flirtation and a friendly smile, and you can use this experience for when you are out trying to meet women.
And finally, don’t be in a big rush to find the right woman. Things like this come in time. No matter how hard or where you look, you may find the right woman in a place that you would least expect it!
